I am not sure how I am going to get out of it. I bring it up to close friends on occasion. They probably aren't reading this so I will just say it- they feel stagnant too. Great.
I am not helping the situation much but I feel like I need new people in my life again (or just closer to those that fit.) All of my best friends have matched up with their new favorite people and I have been replaced. I will take the blame on that part, I left, I came back, and then when I got the chance I left again. All of my new favorite people I have known for less than a year. Some I have only known for 4 or 5 months and I feel like I know them more than people I have known for what seems like forever. I guess I am just a very temperamental person.
Even if I could just temporally get out of this rut, I'd be okay with that.